Wednesday, September 21, 2016

A Bucket List for Gus

When we learned of Gus' sickness, we were all so upset. We felt defeated and our home just felt sad.
Instead of wallowing, we decided to create a bucket list for Gus. 

Every day we chose something new and we gave him a very full last few weeks on earth...and in return, he gave us a beautiful distraction.
We tried to capture as many photos as possible but sometimes we were just too caught up in the moment. These are memories we will keep forever.

1. Swimming in the lake
2. run through the prairie grass
3. play fetch


4. eat fresh baked bread
5. nap on the sun room chair

6. cuddles with kids

7. nap with mom
8. eat an ice cream cone
9. bacon for every meal
10. ride in the truck

11. lick dishes in dishwasher as long as he wants
12. run in the mud puddles

13. Chase Maya in the yard 
 
14. Waffles for breakfast
15. share yogurt with Brooks
16. sit in the shade and watch the kids play 

17. S'mores

 18. story time
19. nap with Maya

20. Sleep with mom and dad in bed

And just like that, his bucket list was complete. 
I recently came across this saying:
"having a dog as a part of your family will bless you with some of the best days of your life, and one of the worst."

That is completely true. Gus, you were a champ of a dog, and we miss you so much.

Saturday, September 17, 2016

Our Gus

On a cold, early spring day, we drove out to a farm and got to pick out our very own puppy.
That is the kind of day any kid dreams about. 
We found this sweet little boy with the perfect markings.
He was calm, content, and as sweet as can be.
When we got to take him home, he learned everything so quickly. He followed directions, followed us without a leash, and followed Charlie's guidance for a short time.
He was as close to a perfect dog as one could ever meet.
We asked a lot out of him at a very young age and he rose to the occasion while staying playful and full of energy.
Although he did have a sneaky streak in him.
He loved to steal fresh baked banana bread from the counter, take naps on the chair, eating leftover food in the garbage was one of his favorite things, the highchair tray was his golden ticket, he chewed one of my new end tables only days after purchasing it, and he was a master digger resulting in sneaking out of fences...even going as far as to tunnel his way under the fence.

His goal in life was to please his family and find those darn birds. 
Hunting and fetch were his absolute favorite things in the world.


Although his family was a very close 2nd. We would throw, throw, and throw those darn tennis balls until they were covered in slobber and his tongue was hanging down to the grass.

The kids put him through a lot...but he took it all in stride. His kids meant the world to him.
He would sleep with them at some point during the night, comfort them when upset, and tolerate all their hugging. 

 

He was a dog who had jobs and he took those jobs very seriously.
He was kind, quiet, and the absolute best communicator.
I used to say all the time that "Gus told me he had a hurt paw." or "Gus told me something was wrong."
Sometimes, I had to communicate with him..."Gus, go check on the kids." or "Gus, go get Maya."

Gus had two homes with our family but he clearly loved our current home the best.
He had friends next door, geese in the field, and plenty of running space.
He snuck away a few times to meet his girlfriend resulting in us being in a panic for a few hours.  When he was done laying in the sun with her, he simply returned home.
He knew he was in trouble so he walked right into the kennel with his head hanging down but not before giving me a look saying, "that was totally worth it."

Gus and Maya were partners in crime. It was like a really good marriage: he was calm, she was crazy; he was focused, she was distracted, he was ever-trusting of others, she was skeptical. They cuddled up together, played together, wrestled, and kept each other company.
She will be sad for awhile and she misses him dearly, but we will all help her through it. 
Gus had a short life, but it was full to the point of overflowing.
He loved so many, and so many loved him.
Gus spent his final days doing what he loves: playing fetch and cuddling with his family.
When it was time to say good-bye, he was surrounded by love including his favorite girl, Marie.
We are thankful for our time with him and know he is telling Charlie boy all our most recent stories in heaven.

Gus
March 6, 2013 - September 16, 2016

Monday, September 12, 2016

Hall of Fame Weekend

Back in July, we received notification that the 2004-2005 basketball team at USD which Andy was a part of was being inducted into the Hall of Fame. 
This was a nice surprise and we were anxious to see old teammates and friends again. 


This past weekend we were able to go spend the weekend in Vermillion celebrating the inductees and also participate in festivities for the home football game. 

Friday night we attended a banquet where the inductees were recognized.
The kids did a great job at sitting as still as they could and being quiet during the ceremony. 
It was a special honor having Joe and Karen attend with us as Joe is also in the USD Hall of Fame for men's basketball.



That night Andy and I were able to sneak away and spend some time with the old crew and relive some fun memories from our college days. 
On Saturday, Andy enjoyed a tour of the new basketball facility while the kids and I explored Vermillion. We drove by the lookout where Andy proposed, a few parks we enjoyed, of our old dorms.

We enjoyed tailgating, listening to the band, as well as watching the football game. 
During half time, Andy along with the rest of the inductees were recognized on the field. 


It's always nice to head back to Vermillion but this weekend was extra special for us. 
It was fun to explain this whole other life that Andy and I had to the kids. Marie was fascinated by our dorm life and college life before we were parents:
"Wait, Dad played basketball here?"
"Mom, you were in a singing group?"
"So you just lived with a person you didn't know?" 

It was fun to relive those memories and think ahead to our own kids enjoying college...actually scratch that last thought...it's too soon to let my mind wander to sending them to college!
Either way, Go Yotes!

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

Savoring the Moment


About two weeks ago we noticed that Gus wasn't eating much, losing weight, and pretty lethargic.
It was significant enough that we knew something had to be wrong. 
Blood work and a few biopsies later revealed that our poor buddy had advanced stage lymphoma.
Treatment options included time away from us with chemotherapy and possible radiation with a poor prognosis. 

 

As a family, we have chosen to spend our time with Gus at home where he is comfortable and happy. 
Although he is very skinny, and not eating very well, he still loves chasing the tennis ball, cuddling up with the kids, going for a run with Andy, and walks with Kelly. 
He is allowed to indulge in whatever he desires pretty much...chicken, bacon, cookies, and even sweet potatoes. 
The kids are aware of his cancer and they are very sad. They have created a bucket list for him and are enjoying making these memories already. He has gone swimming, eaten an ice cream cone, slept all night with Marie, and even enjoyed an afternoon nap on the couch where he is usually not allowed. 
Gus is such a good dog. He has only been with us a few short years and were are holding onto him as long as he is happy and able to enjoy the life he loves. 
We are all too aware that soon we will have a big loss to cope with in this house. But, for now, we are just going enjoy him, pet him, and give him all the love he deserves...and of course throw that dang tennis ball a few more times.
 
 

First Days of School

The first day of school has come and gone...and now we have a 1st grader and a 4 year old preschooler. 


It's crazy to see how much older they look with their back packs on as they head into the school building. Both kiddos were very excited for school to start and they are anxious for what this year will bring!

Bennett is in school 4 days a week for the afternoon, while Marie is there all day and all week. 
Brooks was pretty sure he needed to be in school too so he put on a back pack just like his big brother and sister.